Low Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem is a deeply ingrained sense of unworthiness or inadequacy that affects how individuals perceive themselves and interact with the world around them.

Symptoms Of Low Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem can present in various ways, such as

  • Persistent self-criticism

  • Feelings of incompetence or inferiority

  • Negative self-talk

  • Reluctance to take on challenges or assert one's needs

  • Reassurance seeking or people-pleasing behaviours

Causes Of Low Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem can stem from various factors, both internal and external.

Internal factors may include:

  • Negative early childhood experiences

  • Personal characteristics like perfectionism

  • Excessive self-criticism

  • A tendency to compare oneself negatively to others 

External factors such as social media, societal expectations, cultural norms, bullying, or experiences of rejection can also reduce one’s self-esteem.


Impact Of Low Self-Esteem

People with low self-esteem might downplay their achievements, fear rejection or criticism, or may avoid social situations to prevent perceived judgement or failure. This negative self-view can profoundly impact relationships, career aspirations, and overall well-being, leading to a cycle of self-doubt and increasing behaviours that move us away from what we value, or having a meaningful life. 


When To Seek Treatment For Low Self-Esteem

If you’ve noticed that self-esteem is an area that negatively impacts you, then therapy can help you feel more secure and satisfied within yourself.

How We Can Help

Jessica Lyons

Jessica is experienced in self-esteem treatment in Melbourne and can help support clients as they learn to become more comfortable with who they are whilst living in a world of negative self-comparisons.

Appointments available in 1 week

Telehealth or In-person